So I’ m 40 and find myself single, again! My choice and not one I’m too worried about as I know the decision to leave my previous relationship was for the right reasons. But I feel like I’m disappointing my parents. They are dying for me to meet someone nice and settle down. Mainly because my dad can then relax a bit and feel I’m being looked after by said husband! Or boyfriend! . All my “smug married” friends look at me and say oh no not again, why can’t you find a nice bloke?